Welcome to My Wedding-To-Be.com!

At the wonderful suggestions of friends, I want to share a little bit about this site.

I started in the event planning business almost 4 years ago and fell in love with it right away. I started to gain all this knowledge of how to work with a budget, how to deal with difficult vendors and clients, what were great venues and what weren't and so much more! When my friends starting getting married and I thought I have to share this information - and so it began.

To all the Brides-To-Be, Grooms-To-Be and everyone involved, welcome to My Wedding-To-Be! Please feel free to ask me questions, tell everyone stories and even answer questions and make suggestions of the good, the bad and the ugly. Also know that it doesn’t have to be all about weddings – it could be about any event planning!

Congratulations and Have Fun!

Friday, November 23, 2007

Keeping Your Wallet Full

Congrats Dad! Now that your daughter or son has made the biggest decision of their lives all that has to be done is finding the money to fullfill their dreams - and don't you know you're the one who always told them to dream big!

There are plenty of ways to save money without compromising those dreams! Below is a simple suggestion (more to come) for you to keep in mind (some that won't be offered to you by those wonderful vendors!) when you're wheeling and dealing with vendors who have been in the industry for years!

- Beverage Costs: The bride and groom are most likely going to want to offer their guests an open bar during their reception and this can work out very cost effectively.

Most hotels or restaurants will ask you to buy a bar package per person (per hour!!) which can add up very quickly! When the hotel or restaurant asks you to pick from a list of bar packages you will see they are around $35 per person (most, not all, are PER HOUR! Be sure to read the small print).

- Ask them if they have different levels of liquor brands that you can choose from and ask if you could see that list. These different options are going to be separated into tiers which will effect the cost.

- Once you decide which level of liquor you would like to offer (guests will be just fine with Beefeater instead of Bombay!) ask the hotel/restaurant if you can base your bill on consumption instead of doing a bar package per person. This is where you can potentially save money! This way you are paying for what is actually being drank instead of assuming everyone is going to drink $35 an hour!

- Also, when you choose the cocktail and dinner wines, go for a less expensive bottle. The based on consumption payment method gets you to buy the bottle, not the glass. (Liquor too) - this way you are paying $20 for the bottle and not $6-7 per glass. (There are about 5 glasses in a bottle so you are saving $10-15 per bottle of wine!)

There is of course nothing wrong with buying the bar package if you just don't have a group who drinks a lot - just make sure you read the fine print and ask as many questions as you can until you understand exactly what you're paying for!!

Cheers!

Going Green?

Going Green at your next event, bridal shower, wedding or birthday party is possible! I’m not talking about having all your guests sit outside on picnic blankets or using twigs for utensils. I mean wearing hemp skirts and going barefoot! Not your style?! No need to worry, there are tons of ways that your event can be environmentally friendly, check out these ideas below and don’t hesitate to think outside the box!

- As wedding favors, give each of your guests tiny tree saplings or a Tree In a Box. When they arrive back home they will plant a new tree and have a long lasting memory of your special day! Check out Tree in A Box to start growing - they will even personalize the box!

- Ask your caterer to utilize local farmer’s crops. Not only will you be supporting your neighbors (who support the environment daily) but your food will be delicious, fresh and most of the time organic! Try http://www.localharvest.org/ to find a farm near you!

- Use recycled paper for your save-the-date, invitations, programs, menu cards and thank you cards! Recycled paper products have come a long way in the past few years and you can find beautiful paper, ink and even stamps that are recycled! Check out http://www.naturallyeverafter.com/ for recycled ideas!

- There is nothing like getting pampered with the girls the day before your party or wedding – or any day for that matter! Take the girls to an organic spa and get back in touch with “natural” beauty! Check out http://www.spafinder.com/ to find a perfect match for spas all over the world!

There are plenty more ways to have your wedding or event be eco-friendly and no reason not too! Don’t get me wrong you don’t have to have solar panel energy to cook dinner for everyone but every little bit counts! Do your research and ask around, a lot of vendors may already be using eco-friendly ways to make your dream wedding or party a success!

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Welcome!

Welcome to MyWeddingToBe.com, where the idea is simple...

This is a place to ask questions and get answers from other Brides-To-Be, Grooms-To-Be, Mothers of the lovebirds and all the other important people in and at your wedding!

Those important people (Dad, you too!) can come and look at budget sheets (still you, Dad!), ways to skim costs that add up, find sample dress sales, try to plan the perfect bridal shower and more!

Enjoy, ask questions, share stories -- good and bad! -- and don't keep us a secret!